May 2012
74 posts
im not sure but i think i have a crush on a girl and i can't tell if she's bi or not... she over a boy and i have a bf but its like were flirting.. she sits next to me in all of our classes which are same and she wants me to give back rubs and massages to her and i do and she also gives me back rubs i undo her bra all the time and sometimes i caress her leg and stuff she doesn't minds and we make a lot of lesbian jokes act like it and stuff... what do you think? is she flirting?
Hm. Usually I would say yes, she’s flirting, and pretty blatantly, too. But there’s really no way to be sure about this. Sometimes they might be all sorts of flirty but will deny it altogether when you bring it up.
You can take notice of the way she looks at you, see if she holds eye contact longer than necessary, and how she reacts when you do that. Also, when you two are being all touchy and stuff, is there a lot of giggling and talking, or does it feel intimate? You know, that sort of things.
The Boxer
Simon & Garfunkel
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Gay Girls Problem #73: That awkward moment when a girl is convinced that you like her when you really don't, and tries to distance herself from you.
Ah well
Gay Girls Problem #72: Being accused of "turning" someone
Actually, I’d plead guilty to this.
After I bite someone’s neck, they start to puke rainbow and ooze awesomeness.
The one thing about college that I’m not looking forward to is the fact that I’ll be working for minimum wage.
dude, you NEVER sound this nice when you’re talking to me in real life. Is this how you normally speak to people-who-are-not-me?
Pfft. Obviously xD
Gay Girls Problem #71: As a child, Pink Ranger was your favourite, yet you didn't really want to be her.
Man, aren’t I old?!
“You’ll be my new night job. I’m gonna love you like my boss is watching.”
—Jack Donaghy
Gay Girls Problem #70: When you assume that when someone's gay, their thinking must be progressive.
You know, some people support marriages between two women because “The Bible is only against gays.”
Gay Girls Problem #69: Not being able to take anything with '69' in it seriously
no, not really. but, thanks anyway haha
What I meant is that first there’s the heat when you see a cute girl. And then when you see two girls together, you feel like that’s probably what you want. The last step, which is actually the most important one, is to try being with one and see if it feels right. Once the attraction’s there, feel free to experiment and find out what’s right for you.
hey there :D i have one really stupid question... how does someone know if they're gay? well, at least how did you know?
Hm let’s see. Say, when I see an attractive person, I might think “That’s one tasty dish”, but only when that person is a girl do I start to think “Hey, I’m actually kinda hungry.” Does that make sense?
Gay Girls Problem #68: Am I the only one who doesn't like the word "lesbian"?
It sounds like a disease or something.
If the guys can call themselves something as fun as “gays”, why can’t we get “ecstatics”?
“I hate you so much it gives me energy.”
—Dylan Moran
Stop asking me why I like you! Just fucking STOP, okay? All of you!
Why the fuck does anyone like someone, really?
Sure, some of you are kind, smart, beautiful human beings who listen to brilliant music. Well, guess what? There are thousands of people out there who are kind, smart, beautiful and make brilliant music. You’re not so fucking special to the world, okay?
I like you, and you’re very dear to me, that’s all. I can’t fucking explain why I see you in a different way. That’s just the way it is, okay? I like you because of fucking nothing!
You know, one of those days, your beauty will fade, your mind will deteriorate, you might turn into a bitter old hag who hates people’s guts, and your idea of good music might just be anything loud enough for your deaf ears to catch, but I will probably still like you, for no fucking reason.
Gay Girls Problem #67: When you're so used to not having any gay girls around that when a girl seems to be hitting on you, you think it must be your overactive imagination at work.
How she flirts:
How you react:
do gay girls have this problem: when you're in a relationship and someone asks 'who wears pants in your relationship' or 'which one of you is boyfriend' or something like this?
Here it is! Gay Girls Problem #6
Gay Girls Problem #66: When straight girls flirt with you to try and get their way
I know you’re straight, motherfucker!
Okay but what do you need?
This blog....:D Makes me smile, it's great to be able to laugh at our gay girl problems instead of moping about. You're awesome!
Thank you :D
So are you in good relationship with your parents now? I mean, is everything like before they knew about you?
Yeah, pretty much! If anything, they’re a little more tolerant when it comes to the LGBTQ community now, which is great :)
when you told your family you are gay, how did they take it?
I never actually told my parents. They found some of the stuff I wrote and figured out I liked girls as well, and a lot more than I liked guys. We don’t really talk about it though. I know deep down they still hope that I’ll end up with a guy in the end, but I’m thankful they’re not giving me a hard time.
Gay Girls Problem #65: Straight girls love their male sassy gay friend, but straight guys will always hit on us.
I mean, what’s that all about?
“Why is crying so pleasurable? I feel clean, absolutely purged after it. As if I had a grief to get over with, some deep sorrow.”
—Sylvia Plath
You’re gorgeous and I’m in love with how you speak!
YOU!
Really.
Thanks for the answers, I know it's annoying to talk to anons anonymous, but I just can't figure out what I like. However, you helped a lot, so thanks again. :)
No it’s not annoying at all, I’m happy to help :)
I MISS YOU JADEYYYYY
I MISS YOU TOO CHYEEEEEEE!!!
So you've never been attracted to a male?
Oh yes I have actually. Technically I identify as a bisexual, but I’ve always been a lot more interested in women. Besides, I’m kinda allergic to penises, so yeah… I’m not opposed to the idea of ending up with a man, I just don’t see that happen.
I would like to know how old are you and when did you realize you liked girls? This might be a stupid question but it would really help me. :)
I think in a way I’ve always known, but I realised that when I was 9 and put a name to it when I was 13. I’m 19 now :)
Gay Girls Problem #64: The (perceived) benefit of coming out
This is what you’d expect:
But in reality, all it does is to allow you to say this in public:
Gay Girls Problem #63: How the gay pop culture references you make are lost on your straight friends
Seriously though, not even Ellen and Portia?? I mean C’MON!
Hey I just found your page and I'm obssesed ... lmao you seem really cool and nice. so random q whats the worst thing you've ever done? i always like seeing how people answer
Thank you dear :) The worst thing I’ve ever done was pretty awful and I don’t think that’s something I’d feel comfortable telling everyone about. Sorry about that! You should come off and get to know me, maybe someday you’ll find out :P
