im not sure but i think i have a crush on a girl and i can't tell if she's bi or not... she over a boy and i have a bf but its like were flirting.. she sits next to me in all of our classes which are same and she wants me to give back rubs and massages to her and i do and she also gives me back rubs i undo her bra all the time and sometimes i caress her leg and stuff she doesn't minds and we make a lot of lesbian jokes act like it and stuff... what do you think? is she flirting?
Asked by Anonymous
Hm. Usually I would say yes, she’s flirting, and pretty blatantly, too. But there’s really no way to be sure about this. Sometimes they might be all sorts of flirty but will deny it altogether when you bring it up.
You can take notice of the way she looks at you, see if she holds eye contact longer than necessary, and how she reacts when you do that. Also, when you two are being all touchy and stuff, is there a lot of giggling and talking, or does it feel intimate? You know, that sort of things.