But it's okay because I am a tree-hugger
Asked by patchworkpajamas
The name's Jade. I put a baby in Natalie Portman.
So when i think about romantic relationship i imagine myself with a guy but when i think about sex i want only girls. I like guys but in a romantic way without the sex and i like girls in the sex way :D It's confusing... and i need some advice?
Asked by Anonymous
I used to think that years ago, and I’ve realised that, for me, it’s all due to the lack of experience. I imagined myself in relationships with only guys because I was brought up to believe that that’s what comes natural, and fancied sex with girls because I’m familiar with girls’ bodies and it feels more comfortable, and because, well, I like girls xD. This was before I had any real ideas about my preferences, so I’d say you should go ahead, experiment, and see what you really want.
just wanna say absolutely love your Gay Girls Problems blog! SO true and very funny aswell =) can i ask how and when you "came out"?
Asked by theangelsandsaints
Hello there and thank you :)) I never officially “came out”. Never found the need to I guess. There came a time when I started talking about girls more and when people asked if I liked girls, I said yes.
Thank you for your answer! I think "experimenting" is something many people suggest in my case, but I don't really know where to start... like, do I just ask a girl out and see how it goes? I've also heard gay girls usually get offended if bi-curious girls just "use" them for "experimenting," and I really don't want that to happen. I think you have really nice friends :)
Asked by Anonymous
No problem at all! I’m happy to help :))
By “experiment”, I didn’t mean try to get it on with a random girl. What I meant was that you should be open to whatever new and unfamiliar things that come your way. For example, if you find a girl cute, go for it and be flirtatious. Be sure she knows where you are and is comfortable with it. We don’t take offence if you’re honest. After all, you yourself are confused, and it’s not like you’re looking for a hit-and-run thing.
And yes, my friends are wonderful! I hope yours are also accepting and supportive of you :))